The option of only "Spouse" in the relationship field isn't enough. (AND, listing someone that is a 'partner' under the "Membership" category is insulting.) So many people today live together in a relationship but are not married - especially in states that do not allow gay marriages! There needs to be an option called 'Partners' and then instead of it saying 'married to' it would say 'partner'. Without being able to see this relationship at the top of the contact makes this very hard to manage. Mailings have to be done manually AND it makes the chance of 'misspeaking' when someone calls in very easy.